An Adults Views

My best friend Abel announced last night right in the middle of dinner that he is gay and will now begin to date men though he has never done it before. He announced this just as the main course was being set and after he did I swear almost no one was able to finish their food. It came as a huge surprise to all of us since he is such a tall, sexy, gorgeous guy and he has always had the best luck with girls. As he explained he has always known that he was gay but thought we would all be disappointed in him so all these years he had kept it bottled up, but that lately he has really been feeling a need to find his soul mate and decided to come out of the closet and admit to everyone who he really is.

When he explained all of that we all felt so incredibly guilty and of course we love him so much that we never would have cared if he was gay or not. We all immediately offered to help him find the perfect guy for him and by the end of the evening we all agreed that joining some free dating sites might be one of the first steps in finding someone special. It would have been better if we personally knew some guys to set him up with rather than sending him to the free dating sites but we really don’t know any other gay people so we will have to start off with that.

So tonight Abel is coming over to my place and I am already very excitedly looking for the best free dating sites for him, I want to find a site that will help him ease into dating men since this is also very new to him. I certainly don't want him to join one of those free dating sites where all those more experienced and older men hang out, we can not have him be taken advantage of. So I am looking for some nicer sites, sites where he can be free to explore without being a piece of meat to a bunch of sharks.

So as you can see all of us are extremely okay with Abel’s new life style. We love him so much that all we want is for him to be happy. We all wish he had not hidden his real self all these years but we are hoping that by helping him find someone we can amend a little for not having noticed that he was suffering all that time.